Yes, I dread this date... Being single, with absolutely no hope of having a date that night, it is indeed a day to fear. I would ask all my friends to hang out but most, if not all, will either be going on a single date or a group date. Either that, or they'll give me noncommital crap in the hopes that they will have a date that night and not be relegated to the ranks of those who have nothing better to do than "hang out."
Last time I tried to go on a group date my date ended up not being able to go so I asked a friend to help me out. Well, he got me the least talkative and dorkiest guy I've met. It's not that he's all that bad, in fact, he's really nice... But he's just really quiet and when he does talk... I want to hide for the dumb stuff that comes out of his mouth sometimes. Now, I know that sounds mean, but you have to know me to understand. I either talk so much it's pitiful, or I don't say anything at all really. And I hate it when people don't think before they speak, especially in myself and trust me, I do it more than I would like. Soooo... If I'm going to have a date, I need some one who can talk with me and keep the conversation going so that I don't feel any more awkward than the usual... Somebody who can insert his own funny stories and laugh with, not at, me about mine. Some one who has a brain to think with and knows how to use it.
On a double date many years ago I got a guy with a brain, but he was really quiet. The date that I had set up for my friend was more talkative. It turned out my friend was really annoyed with him by the end of the ballet performance we had gone to see as our date. I was annoyed too. It turned out that each of us probably would have been happier if our dates had been switched...

Go figure...
And let's not forget guys who've found out that I liked them - just a little, okay - and they totally got scared and then wouldn't even be my friend anymore. Then there's the idiot who I asked out - just as a friend, mind you - and he totally acted like an idiot cuz he got a swelled head and thought I was more interested than I was. Geez, I mean, what do guys think a first date is for anyway?!? It's to get to know a person better! And if you don't like the person that much or the date went bad or you find you're better suited to be friends then you don't have to go on a second date, let alone get married to that person, for Heaven's sake. You can still be friends and all's well that ends well. But does a guy think that way? Apparently to most of the male half of the species, asking them out is tantamount to a proposal of marriage. What the hell?!?!?!
Now, some have accused me of being a man-hater... I do happen to like the songs "Just You Wait" and "I Hate Men." But it's more because the songs are fiesty, like me. I also like "Bless Your Beautiful Hide" and "Sobbin Women." Those two songs are very male and chauvanistic, and I'm neither of those... To tell the truth, I love men - real men that is... Not "guys" or boys, but real men who don't play games and are just themselves. Men who aren't afraid of a woman who's independent and can solve her own problems and who knows when to talk and when to listen... And doesn't say stupid things every other sentence...

Well, that's enough of the rant and rave right now... I'm getting down off my soapbox. I'm too heavy for it anyway; thought it was gonna collapse...

I went to see "Inkheart" Friday night... I don't know about the others in my group, but I loved it. Brendan(sp?) Frasier was back to a little more serious acting and I think it turned out marvelously. It's not to say that there wasn't some comedy, there was... But it was left mostly to the others in the cast and was more like "real life" funny than anything else. And those flying monkeys were creepy...
Now I've got to find out all the names of the other shows that I wanted to see over the past few months and catch up with them on DVD...

If you have a film which you think was good please don't hesitate to reccommend it. I'd love to hear from you and try out lots of different movies!
